one of many reasons why we give up on things, is the feeling that it controls us instead of us controlling "it".
but ain't it just a matter of grabbing that fear by the balls and say
"I will go for it, I will make it work, I'm here to stay, and I won't let anybody get in my way"
the ability to control, the ability to trust.
keep up the faith guys, don't let them pull you down that easily.
spread the hope, we all need it! :)
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chance favors only the prepared mind
well hello there! it most certainly has been a while. that wasn't the plan, but well, shit happens right? so anyways, I'm back from italy. it was awesome out there. I even learned some italian baby. :) isn't italian just a beautiful language? I'd love to talk about something in particular, but I'm having a hard time thinking of something. my mind is just not really working that well lately. but hey I don't wanna bother you guys with a useless story, so I will try my very best to make it "read-worthy".
if there's one thing I can't do, it's making choices.. I'm always scared of making the wrong decision. letting go of the best people, holding on to those who aren't worth the fight.. it's pretty fucking hard to tell the difference, because I can be very naive.. I trust people way too quickly, and most of the time they aren't trustable after all. and as soon as someone shows up that's completely there for me, loves me and would never let me down, I get scared. how fucked up is that? and I do believe that carefully thinking things through is very important. and if you ask me, it is one long process;
first you have to get used to the fact that you have to make a decision, maybe even one that could change your life for good.
then you have to think of the pro's and con's. what could I get outta going for it? is there a chance it might be for nothing? is it worth the risk? will I regret it if I give up? - stuff like that.
and áfter that you're not even done, oh no. you have to be very careful with that stuff. you might forget one or two things so you better check your pro's and con's once (or twice for those who tend to forget)
and after thinking things through and over, you will finally start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. you can finally call yourself "prepared" for the confrontation.
yeah of course there's a chance that you made the wrong decision after all, but when that happens, do not drown in your mistakes.
you can try to figure out what went wrong, analyze every single part of "the mistake", trying to put back the pieces, justifying what could have or would have happened "if - blablabla" or you can leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.
it's harsh, but it works. - sometimes.
if there's one thing I can't do, it's making choices.. I'm always scared of making the wrong decision. letting go of the best people, holding on to those who aren't worth the fight.. it's pretty fucking hard to tell the difference, because I can be very naive.. I trust people way too quickly, and most of the time they aren't trustable after all. and as soon as someone shows up that's completely there for me, loves me and would never let me down, I get scared. how fucked up is that? and I do believe that carefully thinking things through is very important. and if you ask me, it is one long process;
first you have to get used to the fact that you have to make a decision, maybe even one that could change your life for good.
then you have to think of the pro's and con's. what could I get outta going for it? is there a chance it might be for nothing? is it worth the risk? will I regret it if I give up? - stuff like that.
and áfter that you're not even done, oh no. you have to be very careful with that stuff. you might forget one or two things so you better check your pro's and con's once (or twice for those who tend to forget)
and after thinking things through and over, you will finally start to see the light at the end of the tunnel. you can finally call yourself "prepared" for the confrontation.
yeah of course there's a chance that you made the wrong decision after all, but when that happens, do not drown in your mistakes.
you can try to figure out what went wrong, analyze every single part of "the mistake", trying to put back the pieces, justifying what could have or would have happened "if - blablabla" or you can leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.
it's harsh, but it works. - sometimes.
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