okay I haven't posted anything in quite a while now, but I have a valid reason. my boyfriend came to visit me after spending six months in canada. so I was spending 6 days with him or so, which were so awesome by the way. It's so amazing that my love for him is still the same as it were before. If possible, I think I might love him even more. it's like everytime he's near, everybody else seems far away.. there's no one I'd rather be with.. I know I sound so cheesy and cliché right now, but it's actually true. I mean sure I know I'm only 17, but that doesn't say anything. it's not the age but the love that counts. I know this is for real.
only down part is, is that he's not from holland so we can't see each other very often, but I hope that that'll change. plan A is that he'll come live in amsterdam next year and study there. (let's keep those fingers crossed)
but I now realize that it's completely uninteresting for you guys to read about that sort of stuff, so I guess I should come up with something a little more exciting.... (don't get your hopes up right away though)
so about a week ago, I was thinking of something that I still believe to be a very interesting subject: honesty. being honest to one another, for example your significant other. like cheating. should we grab ourselves together and get over it or tell the truth and hurt that one special person? of course telling the truth would be the most honest thing to do. but how honest IS honesty? maybe coming clean is a selfish act, hurting someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt. don't get me wrong, I personally think honesty is very important. but maybe it are the circumstances that truly matter. if the negative outcome outweighs the positive, you should probably keep your mouth shut. because what one doesn't know will never hurt them. but if you truly love someone, and feel a certain weight on your shoulders everytime you look at them, it's probably best to tell the truth. that way you'll always be a cheater, but at least you won't be a liar anymore.
and that, my friend, is what I'd like to call... random-incoherent rubbish. this story has no value whatsoever. it has nonsense written all over it. but well, who gives a care anyway?
Sorry to react if you don't want me to react. I still think honestly is the best thing to do, If it is about big things. I don't think it's selfish at all! By coming clean you choose the hard way, so that's not selfish. By keeping it to yourself you're acting selfish because you're going the easy way out. Just my opinion :P
ReplyDeleteYou probably don't know but i like your writing style :P
ReplyDeleteand i like the word verbiage...for some reason i want to pronounce it in a french manner even though that's not correct.
And regarding your topic, you shouldn't get into the position of having to share such issues in the first place, and if you can't tell it for whatever reason then your relationship might not be very healthy to begin with.
oh i know you, don't underestimate my knowing-people-skills. :)
ReplyDeleteand yes, you both make valid points right there. I'm on your side, but there are always thinks I like to question every now and then, hehe.